Allowance of Life
- ruffcolette
- Jun 4
- 3 min read

Hello Beauties,
It has been an interesting, intense weekend and week so far. If life feels a little more chaotic or you're not running on all cylinders... Welcome... We had a giant solar flare hit the earth over the weekend and she is still vibrating, which means so are you. Our systems are adjusting to the higher vibration that is emanating from the earth as well as within each of us. As without so within. This means you may feel exhausted, manic, confused, depressed or just not feeling like your sweet self, you are not alone. Grounding is essential now more than ever. Get outside and hug a tree, put your feet in water or just take it easy by lying on the grass.
Fun fact - Hugging trees or spending time in nature reduces stress, lowers blood pressure, and can even improve your mood and immune systems. It may also release oxytocin, the love hormone as well as grounding. Nature will always alchemize what you need to release.
I am becoming well aware that we are all in this together. I don't have all the answers. I don't always know what is best, especially when my ego goes full tilt and starts driving the bus. I notice the more I feel compelled to make things happen or push things through, the more frustrated I get and the further my holy grail becomes, but it's all already happening. Why not let it?
I am learning how to surrender and what that feels like. There are days that I am not a fan. It is too much. Who am I if I'm not perseverating on something I can't do anything about or feeling guilty for reasons only my neurosis is aware of. I have learned to "allow" in the last couple of years. Someone in our dance group mentioned, years ago, that her daughter's favorite thing in life was allowance. I'm sure she was referring to the money she was getting for odd chores around the house, but it resonated with me. When I heard it, I immediately thought about the allowance of life.
What does allowance mean anyway - the amount of something that is permitted, especially within a set of regulations or for a specified purpose.
Every day we are permitting life to give us what we need by being open and vulnerable, especially within a set of regulations or for a specific purpose. We are constantly putting limits, and timelines on what we want to receive or give, instead of just allowing and seeing what happens.
The allowance of life by surrendering is enormous and requires faith. Faith in Yourself, the Universe/God, Life or whatever rainbow trail you choose to follow. We are essentially letting Jesus take the wheel. This is very different from giving up. It is allowing what IS, knowing that everything you have dreamed and done over your many lives has brought you to NOW, giving you the opportunity to watch it all unfold without pressure or manipulation. NOW is choosing you, choose it back. (NOW - no opportunity wasted)
Trust in the process. As we see each puzzle piece come together, knowing that there may be a few missing pieces, eventually they all get found and then we get to allow another masterpiece to unfold. Watch it unfold in divine time, the show is amazing! So, that's what the rest of my year looks like. How are you doing? I seriously would love to hear.
Have a wonderful rest of your week lovelies! Y'all be patient and gentle with your sweet self. Know everything is happening for the greater good and you are a big part of this transformation.
Much love, gratitude and blessings,
Colette
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